While doing research to determine why some students
receive far more free money for college than others, I found one difference was
their level of organizational skills. This is one of the sixteen defining
habits of successful scholarship winners that appears in my book, Free College . But students are not born
organized, nor do they wake up one day and know how to keep things in an orderly
fashion. They learn from the examples of others.
The best way to teach this habit is to model it in a systematic
manner. Teach both short term and long term organizational skills. Your
examples don’t have to be wildly complicated, just create simple routines into
your everyday life. Put a shopping list on the fridge. When you see you are
running low on something, add the item to your list. Use the list later when
you go to the store. Children see you doing this, and they adopt the same
habit.
When you’re at the dentist, hair salon, or other service
business you visit on a routine basis, make your next appointment before you
leave. Open your daily planner, or the calendar app on your phone, and record
your next visit. It’s easier for you, but more importantly, will make an
impression on your child.
These are good habits for short term responsibilities,
but children also need to learn how to make both mid and long range plans. There
are several household chores that need to be tackled during the year. I’ve
found changing the filter on my HVAC, replacing my toothbrush, and several
other tasks can be scheduled on the third, sixth, ninth and twelfth months of
the year. By doing so, and showing children how much easier they are to
accomplish by making a plan in advance, they will learn to be more organized.
Long range family plans should be discussed with
children. Going over your plans for a future vacation when they are young can
teach organizational skills. Putting money away for a long term goal,
like visiting the San Diego Zoo, or Disneyland, will give them the skills they will need later to
make plans for school projects or how to apply for college scholarships. The
short and long term planning skills they acquire when in elementary school will
pay off when they are older and looking ahead to college.
Chapters six and sixteen of my book, Free College, go into more detail in how being organized pays off when
applying for college and scholarships. Students who learn how to be systematic have
more “luck” when applying for both. They are less stressed in their senior year
of high school and enjoy themselves far more than their disorganized friends.
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