While the general public believes students who go to universities
with lots of status will be more successful and happier than those who go
elsewhere, this is not the case. Studies published in the Wall Street Journal
recently show engagement while in college is far more significant. Many high
school students are overstressed and anxious, believing the false notion that attending
a name university is the only way to succeed in life. One of my former students
was convinced staying up late to study would improve her grades and chances to
go to one such university. It had the opposite effect. After convincing her to
get at least nine hours of sleep, her health and grades improved and her
anxiety disappeared. She stopped stressing, and was able to attend college after
graduation on a scholarship, as she had desired.
One study by Gallup-Purdue showed what does have a
positive impact on future success and well-being. Thinking back to my own
experiences in college, I realize I benefited from the key experiences listed
in this study. I found when I took a course with a professor who made the
subject exciting, I did better. I was lucky to have professors who took
an interest in me personally. They even placed me with their most
successful Master Teacher, when I graduated college. I didn’t have a mentor,
which is another of the experiences the study found to be helpful, unless you
count the professors who encouraged me.
Another key factor was working on some sort of
project across semesters. My major and minors included becoming fluent in
German and French, (plus English, which I was already, of course).
Language study began for me in high school and continued through college. The internship
which the study found to be helpful isn’t called an internship in education.
It’s called Student Teaching. It’s the same thing as an internship, but unpaid. I dated
while in college, and we did participate in some college activities. The
study found doing so helped students, even later in life.
The underlined parts of the sentences above are the
tips the Gallup-Purdue study found most significant for future success. Not
surprising to me, they are also included in the sixteen defining habits of
successful scholarships winners outlined in my book, Free College. What benefits high school students in being accepted
to college and winning lots of scholarships, is vital while attending
college, and beyond. My book contains ten more researched and proven tips,
however. Half are initiated before high school, the others during high school. This
means, of course, parents start helping students get ready for college
and a lifetime success. They create the foundation. Students take over, for the
most part, when they enter high school and college.
When selecting a college, don’t aim for one with a big
name. Instead find one where the professors teach the courses, interact with
students and show their concern. When visiting campuses, ask students if their classes are interesting, and how they're treated by their
professors. See if the university provides or encourages mentorships. Find out
about the college clubs and activities. Check them out, to determine if any appeal to you. Inquire into
the university's department in the field you hope to study, to see if they have an
internship program. These are far more important factors than if the university
is considered prestigious.
Also make sure to check out the costs involved in
attending. Being saddled with a heavy debt load won’t help you be either
successful or happy after graduation. As I’ve suggested before, the best time
to start applying for college scholarships is when a child is in elementary
school. The second best time is today. Don’t stop until your student is a
college graduate, with a Master’s Degree, if that is the ultimate goal.
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Good advice! We always encouraged our children to go to the college which felt like the best fit for them. Each one chose a different school, and loved their choice. What is right for one person is not always right for another.
ReplyDeleteThat's great. Having caring professors and being involved while attending college can take place in many different locations.
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